Ohioans for Concealed Carry has this story about a woman who was shot by her estranged husband six times in the parking lot of an AA meeting. Apparently the two restraining orders she had on him weren't effective.
The Cincinnati Post carries the full story.
If judges who give out restraining orders would advise people to take responsibility for their own safety, & to be armed then perhaps this kind of thing will stop. But so long as judges & cops & counselors continue to advocate the paper solution as the only one then stories like this one will be too frequent.